Father Mark, Reflections

An Invitation

The following what I consider to be a profound reflection of Spiritual Truth comes from Fr. Richard Rohr’s text, Falling Upward: A Spirituality for the Two Halves of Life. Pp. 65-68.       Fr. Rohr offers daily meditations from his website: Center for Action and Contemplation at cac.org. 

Fr. Rohr explains that we often meet God in a pattern of “Order, Disorder, Reorder,” and that this “must happen to us.”  It points to the Way of the Cross which Jesus says awaits us all when we follow him.  I believe that in some way, we could consider the COVID pandemic as a way of putting us face to face with our cross.  By facing our suffering, instead of attempting to escape or blame someone else for it, we are raised through it in the power of Jesus’ resurrection.


Fr. Mark

“Sooner or later, if we are on any classic “spiritual schedule,” some event, person, death, idea, or relationship will enter our lives that we simply cannot deal with using our present skill set, our acquired knowledge, or our strong willpower. It will probably have to do with one of what I call the Big Six: love, death, suffering, sexuality, infinity, and God.  Spiritually speaking, we will be led to the edge of our own private resources. At that point we will stumble over a necessary stumbling stone, as Isaiah calls it (8:14). We will and must “lose” at something. This is the only way that Life–Fate–God–Grace–Mystery can get us to change, let go of our egocentric preoccupations, and go on the further and larger journey.

There is no practical or compelling reason to leave one’s present comfort zone in life. If it’s working for us, why would we? Nor can we force ourselves into the second stage of disorder (though we must certainly be open to it). Any conscious attempt to engineer or plan our own enlightenment is doomed to failure because it will be ego driven. We will try to “succeed” in the midst of our failure and “order” our time in disorder! But unexpected weaknesses, failure, and humiliation force us to go where we never would otherwise. We must stumble and be brought to our knees by reality. “God comes to you disguised as your life,” as my friend Paula D’Arcy wisely says. We must actually be out of the driver’s seat for a while, or we will never learn how to give up control to the Real Guide. It is the necessary pattern.

There must be, and if we are honest, there always will be at least one situation in our lives that we cannot fix, control, explain, change, or even understand. Normally a job, a fortune, or a reputation has to be lost, a house has to be flooded, an illness has to be endured. Some kind of falling, what I call “necessary suffering,” is programmed into the journey. By denying our pain or avoiding our necessary falling, many of us have kept ourselves from our own spiritual depths. We still want some kind of order and reason, instead of suffering life’s inherent disorder and tragedy.”