Prop23A; Matthew 22:1-1410/11/20
I imagine that there have been times when you accepted an invitation only to at the time of the event, wished you could just stay home, get a beer out of the fridge and watch the game—or perhaps just find a good book and curl up in your easy chair and read.
Invitations require preparation. We have to shower to get the garden we were working in off of us and to put on a change of clothes. Sometimes we’re not always clear as to the dress code and wonder what we should wear. Sometimes we end up going to the event when we don’t always feel like it and many times at the end we’re glad we did.
I recall my younger years when I didn’t want to go to Church but was glad I did after I went. Sometimes the pull to not make the effort can be pretty strong.
Jesus is meddling again, confronting the religious authorities. He tells a story about a king who sends out two rounds of invitations only to be refused.
The religious authorities knew only too well that he was talking about them and their ancestors who were beaten by the Assyrians and the Babylonians.
The king’s next round of invitations were going to the people on the streets and shops—the very people the religious authorities didn’t mix with. The king’s palace was filled, except this one fellow didn’t wear a wedding garment. he term is misleading because a wedding garment was simply a clean set of clothes.
Many only owned the clothes they had on their back. It was customary to borrow second clean garment from a friend or relative to wear. The problem was, it wasn’t easy to find a place to change as many families lived under one roof.
So this fellow just did not bother to make the proper preparation to get cleaned up before going to the wedding. He was later caught and thrown out.
It may seem to us that the king could have cut the fellow some slack. But this is our projection which misses the point of the story.
Jesus is telling them and us that going to the banquet isn’t the same as getting a get out of jail free card. To enter the kingdom of God, one must make the preparation to cleanse oneself of those things that impair our relationship with the king.
Practicing the spiritual life with God—known as Divine Union, practicing forgiveness—seeking it and offering it, showing mercy and the like requires time, effort and practice in order to make the king’s presence a part of our life.
There was a survey done years ago asking a large number of Episcopalians what their prayer life consisted of. Well over half did not have one.
Jesus is inviting us into the heart of God. Every one of us has been invited. What can we do to prepare?